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When it comes to grief, our perceptions of how someone else is dealing with their pain can often be far removed from reality. It is easy...

Yesterday I cried, I cried a lot, big ugly tears, tears of sadness, tears of anger, tears of loss, tears of regret. I cried them all,...

I have been planning a grief event with my wonderful friend Davey and throughout the last few weeks, as we have been getting things...

My writing has been pretty dormant for the last year, due a lot to us moving and me taking on a new job. What has my grief looked like in...

I've missed Rob a lot this week, his laugh, and his funny jokes, and his calls that always started with What up Ma? Where we riding this...

We’ve lived through it, one year, one whole damn year without Robbie. We have experienced almost every first…Thanksgiving, Christmas,...

I stopped writing quite a while ago because honestly I just didn’t have the capacity or energy to keep it up. Grief had exhausted me to a...

The rise of the sun and the time on the clock would tell you it was morning but being up all night made it seem surreal, I had survived...

It is often said that the pain never goes away but we become stronger. I’ve read about grief and process and stages. I have read personal...

It’s 2021 who needs resolutions? We survived 2020 and that was a feat! If that hasn’t convinced you to change your mind set to be...

You are strong, you are resilient, you will survive, we are going to get the kiddos through this come hell or high water, this life...

I have been waiting for peace and quiet since before the chaos of Christmas began and today it is here. While I absolutely love Christmas...

I figured it would take more than a couple days for the haters to rise up over MY blog. At first, I was tempted to monitor anyone who had...

It’s been 1 month and 3 days since we lost Robbie. I haven’t shed a tear yet today but I’m sure they will come at some point. I am an...

Robbie is the center of this blog but if you are going to follow our story you will want to know the rest of his crew. Here are a...